*edited since I didn't word the area about dress code well : ] *
My husband and I are from the Napa Valley but have never really dined much in SF. We were just planning on doing the usual but since it's our 5 year wedding anniversary my husband decided last minute "Hey, let's just go to SF!". Fine by me! But now I'm so overwhelmed with choices.
We like to dress up so I'd prefer somewhere that has a dressed up atmosphere since I seriously hate being overdressed it's just awkward for me. It doesn't have to have a strictly enforced dress code, just where dressing up is the norm. I have seen tons of anniversary dinner posts and have been doing tons of research on great restaurants but can't find any info in regards to having cocktails in addition to wine as my husband is not a wine or champagne fan so I'd prefer to find a place with a great bar. We are staying in the Union Square area so I'd prefer to stay close to there but we can take a cab anywhere so it's not mandatory.
Thank you in advance for your reccommendations!