Four girlfriends (LA, Seattle, Sac), celebrating our friend's 40th bday without the kids (we all have littles, so we're thrilled to get away). Last week-end in August (Fri lunch- Sun lunch). Birthday girl wants good food in a fun, unpretentious atmosphere. Incanto? Rich Table? Gary Danko? We're not too familiar w/ the city (although most of us grew up in Los Altos). Any suggestions/recommendations would be appreciated. We were thinking of doing Ferry Bldg on Sat am. But, what is a fun, safe neighborhood to stay, that isn't too far? Any other tips/recommendations would be appreciated. Thanks!