NYC Chowhound and husband sneaking away for 2 nights to Napa (1 night in sf). I am a huge california wine fan and can't believe I've waited this long. Here are my questions...1. The hotel I chose was the caneros inn. I'm not stuck with it, but it looked like a great place to spoil ourselves for 2 nights. If there is some place better, please let me know. 2. If I recently went to Per Se in NYC and had a fantastic experience (I really expected to be dissapointed), should we use one of our 2 dinners and go to the French Laundery or are there other equally wonderful but different restaurants? I will search the board for dining options, I know lots of people ask about eating there and nearby. However, if any one wants to urge us to eat somewhere, please don't hold back. Thanks in advance!