My husband (who has been to NYC many times) and I (only been to NYC a couple of times) will be visiting from Philly for the weekend in November to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary. My husband surprised me with a reservation for lunch (we may have a chance to change that to dinner) at Per Se. Now I know that sounds lovely, but I am having a hard time with the exorbitant price tag. So I have a few questions for the experts.... Can you add wine pairings to your meal and if so, what is the cost? Would we be wiser to enjoy a couple of really great places instead of just blowing the bank at Per Se? If you were to recommend some other places that food wise you would put on a par (or near par) with Per Se, what would they be? And quite honestly, although I love food I am, most unfortunately, a pretty picky eater (I know, not very chowish!) which Per Se said they will happily accomodate. I'd be most grateful for any input. Also, anyone ever been to the Spotted Pig? It was recommended to us by a chef we know and we'd like to try it out on Friday night. Thank you!