Wow, thank you all very much for your responses! When I have a minute, I will have to check out each and everyone of these recipes :) At least I might be able to get a foot hold in somewhere.

As to all the comments about shakes and smoothies, the issue I see coming from this is that she is always freezing! We will turn on the heater and she will still be wearing a thick jacket (she does insist on wearing a skirt and nylons, even though we try to convince her to wear pants and socks) I'm afraid a smoothie would just make her colder. It is kind of ironic that she is always cold, since she is visiting from Alaska! (I live in Oregon)

Thank you again!

Thank you very much for your response :)
Due to her... being taken advantage of when she is young, she absolutely refuses to go to the doctors. We are doing our best to get her to go, but without drugging her (which I am completely against) I don't see that in her future.

What we are realizing is that she will eat 2 very small portions of food a day, such as a Yogurt for breakfast and an Egg for lunch, but absolutely refuses dinner. (Some days the meal she refuses changes) but will eat 3 or 4 cookies throughout the day.

I'm hoping to find a recipe so when she eats those cookies, at least she is getting some nutrients.

She is just about right weight-wise, and with the exception of some dental work (we are trying to get her to agree to fixing some teeth) and the dementia, she seems to be healthy. She can walk miles and can get up easily from the ground. I'm just worried what will happen if she doesn't eat properly for a few years...

Thanks for the reply again :) I'll check out those cookies!