A great place for bbq and steaks is a place in Yorba Linda called Wood Ranch. There another in the Thousand Oaks area too.
I've had their chicken breast. A big piece of meat, must be a pound or so. Great bbq sauce. The sides mashed potatoes were great.
The ribs are tender and basically melt in your mouth.
Steaks are top notch too.
After dinner there is a movie theatre across the parking lot.