My daughter and SIL got married in February and we're throwing them a late reception in May. There will be a fairly large crowd (100+) but very casual. They only want BBQ (smoked pork butt w/assorted sauces), potato salad (his mom is making this), cole slaw (me), baked beans (me) and mixed fruit. I'm also doing a cupcake bar as they don't want a cake. Pretty basic stuff but how can I make this really special? Any suggestions would be most appreciated!