After reading so many mixed postings on Per Se, I am thinking about bagging the reservation--I don't mind splurging if the food is amazing but it doesn't really seem worth it in this case. We've got 2 friends joining us so any suggestions for a place with amazing food that is not too stuffy? We have one person who is not into sea food. I was considering Burke & Donatella (?) but they can't give us a table that day. Thanks!