Thanks for all your suggestions a few weeks ago.
Below is the menu I served to a group of 7 & 8 year olds. (They actually came back for seconds.)
I have added a link to some photos.
TEA PARTY MENU
Raspberry-Cream Cheese Poundcake Squares
Ham, Cream Cheese, and Pickle Pinwheels
Purple Hearts w/Cranberry-Orange Cream Cheese
Gorgonzola-Cucumber Rounds & Sandwiches (for adults)
Candied Rosemary Pecans
Lavender Scones w/Lavender-Infused Cream
Dark & White Callebaut Brownie Bites
Pink Spiced Plum Tea & Pink Lemonade
Flower-Adorned Cupcakes (from a Bakery)
P.S. Sorry the link to the photos makes you register (free). If anyone knows how to set up a link with Ofoto *without* requiring that, please let me know!!