My sister in law and I are planning a 40th b-day party for my brother. I am in need of suggestions for place to throw this shindig. The criteria would be: a reasonably priced restaurant with a private room/catering hall, that can accomodate a dj, and has good food, in Bergen County. Places I'm thinking about include the Clinton Inn in Tenafly, and the Abbey, in Ramsey. Thoughts on these places, and any other suggestions you could provide would be most appreciated!!!