I want to take someone to dinner at someplace very special in the San Diego area. It should be somewhat dressy, serve delicious American or French cuisine, and be quiet enough for good conversation. Cost is not an issue. I am considering Addison's at the Grand Del Mar, Mille Fleurs in Rancho Santa Fe, and Mr. A's downtown. I have not read anything recently about any of these three, and would appreciate feedback about recent visits. Where would you go...one of these three, or somewhere else?