went to a restaurant last night which we had been to a couple times before, I'm guessing that it's the restaurant policy because the servers just don't leave you alone. Constant babbling and checking in to see if we want anything else becomes annoying after about the 8th time, we were eating and talking to each other and yet the server checked in every few minutes with 'can I get y'all anything else'. Even the manager always comes over once to ask the same question. We have noticed this every time we've been.
I don't want to get up to look for my server to ask for an extra napkin, more water and so on but surely when the diners have said once or twice that they are fine, why keep coming back?