This is a tall order. We would like to keep it in the reasonable range with total bills most nights including drinks and tip between $125 and $200 for 2 adults. Of course, a splurge in each location is not out of the question. We also hate driving after a bottle of wine, so we are looking for places in SB, Carmel and Napa that we can walk to as we are staying at Oceana in SB, the Cypress Inn in Carmel and the Inn on First in Napa. We will be at the Orchard in the Union Sq area in SF, but a cab ride is not a problem there.