My husband and I are going to be in Raleigh (staying at the hilton north) for just two nights. We'll be at a class all day, but will be looking for the best chowhound places for dinner. We are not suit and tie people...we'd prefer to be in jeans. We love all ethnics except for japanese, leaning toward thai, italian, and chinese. We love bbq as well (baby back ribs here in Philadelphia, but we're open to new kinds of bbq) PLEASE send us to some unforgettable native places. Thank you.