We are going to PerSe this weekend (yay!) and I'm wondering about the 5 course vs. 9 course menu (not the vegetarian one). I've heard that individual courses are quite small. Although my appetite is not huge, will I regret not getting the 9 course menu? Is it awkward for servers if one person at the table has the 5 course and the other the 9 course? Has anyone out there tried both?!? Thanks for all advice.