We're a couple who used to be really on top of the NY restaurant scene, but who hasn't been able to get out as much in the past couple years since we had a baby. Our anniversary is next week. The babysitter's booked, and we're looking forward to a romantic, really delicious, and if possible, mind-expanding meal. We have dinner reservations to both Momofuku Ko and Tocqueville, neither of which we've tried. I've been wanting to go to Ko for a while, but I'm worried that the communal seating will make romantic dinner conversation awkward. Still, I'm really tempted by the food. That said, I booked Tocqueville as a back-up based on some really stellar Chowhound reccs. If you were us, which would you pick?