I'm trying to plan a small (4-5 pp) birthday get-together for tomorrow night, and was thinking of either of these. Truth be told, I've been to one, once, and I remember liking it, but I don't remember which it was! I know it was small, but that's about it. We're in our 30's, and want an upbeat atmosphere, but would also like to be able to talk without screaming. Opinions about either? Thanks!