I'm looking for a pleasant place in Brooklyn Heights to have dinner with the man I love. It can be quite low-key but not dumpy (even if the food were heavenly). I live in Carroll Gardens and would like something a little different, maybe more old-fashioned, than a typical Smith Street restaurant. Any ideas? I thought of La Bouillabaise (or is it Bouillabaisse? I never know) and Noodle Pudding, but the latter (which I've never been to) is supposedly terribly loud. True?