Well, I got so much help (Duck or Chicken and Which Mushroom posts, among others) from the Chowhounds that I thought I would post the menu and let everyone know that, thanks to your help, everything was a grand success! The food was GOBBLED at the pre-graduation reception and everyone who came back to the house afterwards got the stuff out of the fridge and ATE MORE!! I was gratified! So heres the menu:
Smoked Salmon Pastry Rolls
Hoisin Chicken Wontons w/ Wasabi Slaw
Parmesan Cheese Straws
Prosciutto Lahvosh Roll
Endive Leaves w/ Shrimp and Goat cheese sauce (this turned into shrimp and goat cheese sauce on crackers when I couldn't find endive in Richmond VA on Monday morning)
Thanks to all who contributed!