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What is good guest etiquette? [Moved from General Topics board]


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What is good guest etiquette? [Moved from General Topics board]

piedsdesanges | Sep 24, 2007 09:29 AM

And how do you set up your dinner/lunch parties to facilitate it?

So yesterday I had some friends over to lunch. I live a ways away from them, in the country, and I had been looking forward to having them over for quite a while. So this was a bit of an event.

I roasted an organic chicken with organic lemons, a la Marcella Hazan. I made an orzo macaroni and cheese (also for a baby that came along). I baked bread. I served my best olive oil as a dip. I bought good wines. I put my homemade preserves on the table. I drove around putting together ingredients. I cleaned my house furiously to make the place ready.


They got there an hour late because one of my friends insisted on taking the long way. Then they left immediately after eating, leaving me to feel like they had dined and dashed.

I realize that where I live, while beautiful, is out of the way for people. But I think that dining and dashing is really bad manners, particularly when I put so much effort into feeding people well.

So I ask you: what is good guest etiquette and how do you facilitate it?

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