I'm trying to plan a bachelorette party for a bride who's not really into the whole male-stripper, getting-wildly-drunk thing. I was thinking of maybe a more low-key wine bar or other place where drinking and fun can be had without outright raucousness. Adding to the mix, one of the invitees is probably underage. Can anyone help me out? My friend is right between New Haven and Hartford, so places in either metro area would work for us. Thanks!