Friends are bringing lobster and a lobster pot to my apt. for New Year's eve. I generally avoid lobster because, while not a vegetarian, there is something sort of heartbreaking to me about being directly responsible for it's rather grisly death. But I digress. I'm in it now, so I would love suggestions on what best to serve with it. Assume they are only doing the lobster -- what would you have (besides melted butter) as apps, sides, dessert, whatever? Thanks in advance!