A girlfriend and I are going to Napa next week and were able to get reservations at the French Laundry. She can drink only 2 glasses of wine, max, for the evening and I can do maybe 3. Do they have wines by the half glass? Will the sommelier take us seriously when we are only drinking wines by the glass? Are there "standard" wine pairings for the various courses? Are there any wines that we definitely should not miss that we can't get anywhere else? I'm just afraid of being way out of my league there as far as wines go and I want to save myself as much of that embarrassment as possible. I really appreciate your help!!!