I am not a control freak about this. Put whatever you want that will make it enjoyable for you. I would like people to at least taste it first. My mother brings a bowl of Montreal Steak seasoning to the table. Before she's had a bite she sprinkles some on whatever's on the fork and takes a bite. I was thinking "Hey this has fresh rosemary, sage and thyme, salt, pepper and garlic that I spent time and effort to put together in a hopefully tasty manner, at least take a bite first.
I'm not losing any sleep over this, I really do want her to do what she wants to make it to her liking, but I will admit to a small part of me that would like her to take a moment and see what's in there first.