We're planning a fall wedding in the Yorktown area from afar, with the generous assistance of relatives in the area.
We're hoping for some suggestions for catering (40 or so people) and/or the rehearsal dinner. (My chowhound search didn't turn up any recent threads.)
Good food is the goal, but it's a relatively small family wedding (with the reception in a backyard, weather permitting) so it doesn't necessarily have to be fancy. In fact, with our grad student budget it probably can't be. Someone has suggested a good barbecue place for the reception, although she hasn't yet passed on the name.