Looking for some recs on lodging in Calistoga and vicinity and eating for my husband's birthday weekend in late February. Comfort for lodging a group of 4 or 5 is the priority; would like to have one fine dining experience and good eating for the rest. From research here, I have quite alot of eating recs so far: Roux, Tra Vigne, Martini House, Pinot Blanc, Bistro Jeanty. Please comment with current updates of eating and suggestions for lodging/resorts/hot waters, wine tours, local faves, etc...The Culinary Academy and Wine Train are also a couple of places I would like to try. Which ones to spend the $$$ on is the challenge. Thanks.