I'm trying to plan an anniversary dinner for my wife and me in about 3 weeks. Failure to plan further ahead probably precludes going to any of the hottest restaurants of the moment (e.g., per se). Thus I am thinking about a more low key place, though with excellent food and romantic atmosphere. Was considering cafe boulud, rm, and oceana. Any thoughts would be appreciated greatly, as well as any suggestions of other places. Thanks!