My boyfriends 30th birthday is around the corner. The celebration is planned for 6/11 and I am having a hard time deciding on a place to go out at night. I am thinking that since it is early summer, I could look into something outdoors. I am looking for a place with a good atmosphere, good music, crowd and drinks. The guests will be in their late late 20s early 30's. I think the only thing I don't want is the place to be jam packed where you can't move, hear or its impossible get a drink. I plan on it just being a fun night out after dinner with the family in Lyndhurst so food service is not the most important. Suggestions for north jersey or NYC are also welcome.