ok. We were all set to have my daughters Bat Mitzvah at the Villa Barone in Mahopac. The more I think about spending upwards of 20K the more I think it's crazy. She is really not into it and seems like we were planning the party for ourselves to keep up with the Jones's.
Anyway- gave my daughter the choice of having the party or going on an awesome mother/daughter trip somewhere. She chose the trip.
I need to find a nice place for a luncheon for after the service. Any ideas? Northern Westchester or White Plains? Maybe 50-75 people.