I'll be in NYC for the very first time on march 1st, to celebrate the big 3-0. Looking for a place that isn't a club (I hate getting dressed up almost as much as I hate house music) but that is also nicer than the dive bars I frequent at home. I'm more of a craft beer and wine drinker but would prefer a place that also serves liquor since my bf's drink of choice is gin and tonic. Any neiborhood is fine as long as its south of central park. I also love a place with great live music: jazz fusion, funk/soul, anything folksy acoustic. It will be a Thursday night if that helps at all. Thanks!