Hi, hoping I can get some good suggestions. My son's bar mitzvah is in March 2010 and we want to have a great LUNCH party. I'm hoping to do it offsite within 20 minutes of Tarrytown or onsite with a helpful good caterer (must be able to do a dairy meal, but doesn't need to be kosher OR a kosher meat meal) We are probably topping out at 100 people (70 adults/30 kids) and we are set with a good non-annoying dj but are totally stymied on the food. Hope you chowhounds can help out! Thanks.