So my 21st BDay is approaching the first week of April and I have a guest list of 25 people. I would like to dinner and then something afterwards (but not sure what!). For dinner I want to go to a really trendy place but Im a picky eater....any suggestions for a place that serves American or Italian?? Also, some of my friends arent 21 yet so I'm not sure what to do after dinner!!! Any suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated. I guess they could sit out the second half of the evening but I dont want to just go to a bar/club (I dont drink!). So something fun and ATYPICAL that is truly a New York experience would be fabulous! HELP!!!