I'm heading to ACK for the first time the weekend of September 19-21. I would love some restaurant recommendations. My husband and I will eat about anything and cost, if worth it, is not an issue. For dinner, a place with a nice reasonable wine list is nice, but a well made manhattan would be better. If there are any small plate places, those recommendations would be very welcome as well as places for pre-dinner drinks and the raw bar, if different from other restaurant recommendations. Also, will the island still be crowded that weekend and will I need to make reservations far in advance for that weekend?