I am getting married in May 09 and am wondering what your suggestions are for a wedding at a hall (central NJ) or in the backyard. We expect at the most 100 people, it will be on a Saturday. It is an Italian/Indian wedding so we want the food and decor to reflect both the cultures. We do not want anything lavish but something personal and warm. I know the experiences vary so I appreciate any and all comments on what in your opinion makes more sense.