I'm plotting a fun Napa weekend to celebrate a friend's 40th birthday next month, and it's been a while since I've eaten in the northern end of valley. We'll be staying in Calistoga and feel the birthday dinner is an occasion where we'll want lots of wine, so we don't want to be driving--a cab for a short jaunt would be okay. We'll be a somewhat large-ish group--8 or 9--and would love a lively atmosphere coupled with really good food. I recall Cafe for All Seasons being good, but it's been a while... Any dinner suggestions? Post-dinner watering holes? Brunch? Any shouldn't-miss wineries? (Not touristy like Sterling; some off the beaten path wineries would be nice.) Lots of the searches revealed older posts, so I'm hoping someone is up to the task, armed with some fairly recent intel on the subject. Looking forward to reading the tips.