I have a friend who wants to have a memorable wedding and reception in the same venue. He will spend as much as he can, but he's getting crazy quotes: State Room - $40,000; Seaport Hotel - $30,000 and so on. They are both in the hospitality business with fine dining experience, so they do have high standards, but not $350/person high. He looked at the Stonehedge Inn; it was too small. There will be about 170 guests coming from as far as France and he is looking to spend, I would guess, about $90/person, all inclusive (room plus food, not liquor.) Any thoughts?