if i want to cook a 1/4 cup of oatmeal w/ fat free milk, how much milk do i need to get that thick gooey consistency? the package said 1/4 cup of oatmeal w/ 3/4 cup milk for a minute in the microwave. i didn't use 3/4 cup of milk since it felt way too much and was cooking it for over 4 minutes when the milk boiled over but the oatmeal was still not cooked. WHAT DO I DO??