Special occasion coming up and looking to try a new restaurant. Le Bernardin is always on my list but never makes the final cut for some reason - so I am strongly considering Le Bernardin - but have recently read that One if by Land Two if by Sea is a very romantic restaurant. Are they even in the same league? We enjoy food for sure - but readily admit - quiet ambience goes a very long way. Can I go wrong with either? should I leave it up to the reservation gods? To provide reference point for special occasion dining - Best Meal ever for us was Jean George (but really the tasting menu is too much food for me in one sitting). Loved Daniel and L'atelier Robuchon (what can I say - glad I experienced Per Se - but just wasn't Mount Olympus for us). any other suggestions?