I know these are all wildly different - which one should I pick for my mom's birthday? She's happy at a fancy place or a more casual one. What I'm looking for is the most delicious meal possible at a place that feels celebratory. Warm and gracious service is a plus. And if the vegetarian options are as tasty as the non-veg ones, all the better. If we go to one of the more expensive places, we can't go wild with the tasting menus, will have to be a la carte.