So we are 3 people,- one who's quintessential Italian is Tony's DiNapoli and Carmines, one vegan just turning to vegetarian (so cheese is o.k.) but no meat of any kind, and myself who loves Scarpetta and Babbo (and have been to both Tony's and Carmines ONCE and hope never to go back). Nothing too formal, 30's-50's east or west preferred. Where can we go so everyone is happy? HELP.