I wouldn't say our lives together center around food. We have a lot in common, but looking back over our marriage (25+) it certainly has played an important role. We both love to be in the kitchen in our free time - he bakes (bread and pastries - FCI NYC), and I cook. When we travel - a big part of our travel preparation is where to eat. Birthdays gifts to each other consists of cooking/baking something special for the other. A great deal of the holidays are spent in the kitchen with our kids. On second thought, maybe our lives do center around food!