Where to eat lunch or dinner within 20 mintes or so of S.orleans. DS is well behaved in finer restaurants, although I wouldn't push my luck every night. He also loves duck confit, but dislikes pizza, cheese and chocolate...so not your average eater. BTW ultra skinny...
On my list, but not sure if appropriate:
Friendly Fisherman (DH loves lobster, DS and I will take a pass--so maybe bring home cooked?)
I have heard mostly about restaurants in Wellfleet from friends, but am very weak on Orleans and know of a few in Chatham. This will be the week of August 18, so I know the crowds and traffic will be oppresive.