Headed to SF and Sonoma in a few weeks and I'm behind on planning! We've been to SF and to Sonoma before so interested in trying some new spots. We're spending the 1st 2 nights at Hotel Healdsburg, dinner reservations @ Scopa and Bistro Ralph. Haven't planned the wineries yet..... Then we move to SF where we're staying at the Hotel Vitale for 2 nights. Looking for great seafood one night and then just a "fun" dinner...tapas, maybe? After all the wine of Sonoma, my guess is we'll be ready for some cocktails, too. (recs for bars/nightclubs?) We love great food and service but also an upbeat vibe is nice. Can't remember all the places we've eaten on prior trips but I know we've been to the Slanted Door, Farallon and First Crush. We're 2 couples in our 40's-50's and we'd like to keep our budget to ~ $75 each. Thanks so much!!