Im planning a pole dance party for my 30th birthday. Although pole dance can be a theme in itself, I was thinking to make the party candy shoppe or chocolate themed. I wanted to go a more sophisticated route such as gourmet chocolates and variations of chocolate martinis. I need some other ideas for "grownup" sweets and would like everything to be miniature/bite sized. I wanted to keep food light and have a few appetizers such as sushi and some Asian style dumplings. For decor I was thinking brown and golds with lots of sparkle. I'm open to any ideas you have for food, dessert, invitations, decor, drinks or whatever else you can think of.
For a little background there will be 10-15 girls of my closest friends and family. Some know each other and a few don't. I want to have a fun and relaxed night where me and my girls can let our hair down.