My 30th birthday is around the corner. The celebration is planned for 7/20 and I am having a hard time deciding on a place to go. I am thinking that since it is summer, I should do do something outdoors. I am looking for a place with a good atmosphere, good music, crowd and drinks. The guests will be in their late 20's, early 30's. I think the only thing I don't want is the place to be jam packed where you can't move, hear or its impossible get a drink. I plan on it just being a fun night out so food service is not e most important. Suggestions for north jersey and DTS (asbury park) are also welcome.